Articulating a More Positive self-Identity. I like it. Here's why.

A Yoga Perspective

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | April 25, 2015

When I edited Articulating Strengths Together by Jerald Forster, my stepfather, the Yogini in me got very excited and interested in the practice of Strengths Articulation. So excited that I created a workshop that brought Dr. Forster and Swami Ma Sattvadevi together for a conversation about Strengths and Meditation in New York. 

That event was the beginning of a rich conversation between myself and my stepfather that is culminating in a new book that we are writing together. The book is about strengths articulation and identity. 

In a nutshell, strengths articulation is finding the best words to talk about what you like about yourself. This practice has a cumulative effect of improving positivity and positive self-regard. Well, it has for Professor Forster and myself, and we are currently welcoming case study participants, so email me if you are interested in seeing if this could work for you. 

How does this fit in with Yoga?

At it's heart, Yoga is about identity. The word Yoga can be translated as Yoke, and means yoking the individual consciousness to the Universal Consciousness. The central contemplative question of Yoga is Who am I? 

Simple question. But not easy to answer. For many Yogis, Universal Consciousness is a hypothetical notion. Contemplation and meditation are two methods of obtaining personal experience to test the hypothesis.

What makes meditation and contemplation difficult? One challenge is feeling overwhelmed by negative thoughts and feelings. Sometimes there is an idea that we cannot control our own mental negativity. We are at its mercy. Negativity in thoughts can translate into behaviors that either drown out negativity or act out negativity. Prone to habits, we get caught in a cycle of negative thoughts and actions. With a dash of shame thrown in. Spicy!

Feeling Good About Yourself Helps You Contemplate, Helps You Meditate, Helps You Do Yoga

A remedy for mental negativity that you might recognize if you are a studied Yogi yourself is: focusing on what is sattvic. "Sattvic" is an adjective that describes positive, uplifting attributes such as peacefulness, beauty, wisdom, clarity, and the like. Focusing a lot on these qualities in and around us may have a stabilizing effect. 

Strengths articulation is this kind of practice. It is a practice in giving our attention to positive feelings and positive ideas about who we are. Yes. It is okay to feel safe in your own brain, like you are likable, lovable, and admirable to yourself. You needn't tell the nay-sayers you are doing it. They might spit out insults like "narcissist," "ego-maniac" or if you are a Yogi, they might, sadly, accuse you of having "Ahamkara" issues. Who has time for this? 

Positive Self-Regard Is the Beginning

From a psychological point of view, I suppose healthy, positive self-regard and a positive mental environment is an end to itself. From a Yoga point of view, it is about mid-way on the journey of this "Who am I?" contemplation. Taking out our Kosha Map, we will be continuing to journey through intuitive intelligence, bliss, and finally arriving at our destination of Universal Consciousness, hypothetically. 

The benefits of reducing our burden of negativity, our fears, regrets, and anxieties are self-evident. Increasing our positivity, our acceptance, love, and joy sounds good. 

The experience of taking the reigns of one's thoughts, and transforming ones self-identity? To witness identity as a self-created malleable something; that is priceless. Through the simple and beneficial practice of strengths articulation you have this opportunity. Take it!

Meditation Workshop at Yoga NW in Portland, Oregon

2 Minutes to Meditate
A Workshop for Busy, Stressed-out People and You

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | April 6, 2015

Please join me on Saturday, May 9th from 1 to 3 PM.

I am going to give you the secrets to establishing a positive, daily practice. 

Yoga NW is located at 1901 NW 26th Avenue
Register for the workshop online by choosing Events at www.yoganwpdx.com

You've heard about the benefits of meditation. Maybe you've even told yourself you are going to give it a try. Maybe you've even read a book or two about meditation. You may even have purchased 2l-Minute Practice Cards. But you still aren't meditating. 

According to the Mayo Clinic the benefits of meditation include:

• Stress Reduction
• Improved Health
• Better Sleep
• Reduced Negative Emotions
• Increased Self-awareness

This workshop is for you, if you want to get these benefits from this simple, profound practice. 
This workshop is especially for you if your next thought is that you don't have time. Because you really can benefit from a 2-Minute practice. 

You will learn secrets for making your daily practice a success. (And then, you can apply those secrets to ANYTHING you want to accomplish in your life.) 

Come find out how easy it can be. 

I will teach you the skills that together produce a meditative state of consciousness.

• Posture
• Deep Breathing
• Breath Awareness
• Systematic Relaxation
• Mindfulness

I will answer your questions about meditation. 

This workshop is only $35. Register online or in person at Yoga NW. Or call them at 541-490-3607. Reserve your space today. 

Participants will have an opportunity to purchase 2-Minute Practice Cards at a significant discount from the online price. 

Jennifer Rose is a 500-hour certified yoga and meditation teacher through the Himalayan institute of Yoga Science and Philosophy. In New York, she taught at the Himalayan Institute, and founded the Yoga Co-op and the Clear Water Meditation Circle. She currently resides in Portland and hosts the monthly teleconference Conversations With Walking Yogi Nishit Patel.  

As You Think, So Shall You Become --Bruce Lee

"The Words You THINK Become the HOUSE you live in." 

--Nishit Patel 

Join me in conversation with the author of this title quote, Nishit Patel, the first Wednesday of every month. Tomorrow our topic will be Mantra Initiation: Mastering Your Second Birth. Subscribe for the monthly teleconference here: Better Existence Events 

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | February 3, 2015

You are what your deep, driving desire is. 
As your desire is, so is your will. 
As your will is, so is your deed. 
As your deed is, so is your destiny. --Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5

Introspective people have a tendency to bring cautionary attention to our thinking. 

We are what we think. 
All that we are arises with our thoughts. 
With our thoughts we make the world. 
Speak or act with an impure mind 
And trouble will follow you 
As the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart.  --The Buddha, from The Dhamapada

When wisdom appears similar across different traditions, that really gets my attention. 

Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. --Proverbs 4:23

There is a battle of two wolves inside us all. One is evil. It is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, lies, inferiority, and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy, and truth. Which wolf wins? The one you feed. --Cherokee Proverb

You can take their word for it, or you can find out for yourself. 

I guess I am the do-it-yourself kid. I want to run my own tests. I don't want to know it's true, want to experience this truth. I want to empower you to run your own tests, too. 

One concept in all of these quotations is that our thoughts have a creative effect. Mr. Patel is very concise and contrasts the subtle, interior "words you THINK" with a tangible, exterior "HOUSE."

What will you do with this wisdom?

When we set out to work on our "words" we are on in internal mission.

Meditation may be the most useful practice to empower a person who wants to change their thinking. Meditation introduces you to your interior life, of which your thoughts are a part. Many of the words we think are completely unconscious. And the "house" we find ourselves living in may seem alien, and not of our making. Meditation can make the unconscious conscious, and we can take responsibility not only for ourselves, but for our circumstances. (Read more about not being a victim of circumstances.) 

Meditation takes attention from the outside world and turns it inward. We become attuned to our bodies. And we benefit. We become more aware of how the food we eat affects us physically and mentally. We notice the effects of how much we sleep. We make better choices. 

People who meditate notice their emotions and the effects of emotions. They know how long they stay mad once they get started, for example. And there are glimmers of peace and joy that might otherwise have been missed. 

Meditators become more aware of their thoughts, the words they think. Then, they are ready to answer the question for themselves, Do the words I think build the house I live in? That is a question that is worthwhile to ask. If you could build a better house, would you build it? Next week I will give you a method. 

For now, let's get you started meditating. You can call me, 646-831-2675, or order my 2-Minutes to Meditate Cards on Etsy. These cards are beautiful and friendly. Their handmade, jewel-tone envelopes are a sacred space where you can keep your cards.

Especially good for beginners and experienced meditators who have lost track of their daily practice somewhere along the way, these cards provide support for your practice. In just two minutes a day you can lay a reliable foundation that you can build on. 

Victim of Circumstances? There is a fix for that.

Every Moment Is an Opportunity to Choose Your Action

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | January 21, 2015

In a strengths-focused coaching meeting you will be asked to identify good experiences and positive moments. After you identify a good experience from the story of your life, or a positive moment that you noticed one day, you will be asked, What did you do that brought that about? (You can read the rationale for focusing on strengths in last week's blog post.) 

Identifying what you already do that brings about positive moments in your life and adds good experiences to your life story is a powerful tool that transforms the notion that we are victims of circumstances. 

Passivity is a Deeply Ingrained Idea

It takes repeated practice to transform the idea that our circumstances or environment dictate our experience of who we are. Oft repeated identities, such as "I am Chloe and Henry's daughter," "I am a Hudson (family identifications), "I am a Christian" (born into a religious or cultural identity) "I am an American," or "I am a survivor of a traumatic childhood," seem to tell us who we are in very real ways. However, for some people, these identifications become burdensome. 

When identifications become painful, when they do not serve us well, we can detach from our passive acceptance of mainstream ways of self-identification. We can forge our own path. It is a renegade move. It shatters the mold. But it really is not all that difficult. 

Two Ways to Feel Good

A lot of times we are on a roller coaster of emotional highs and lows. When we look for positive moments in our lives, we notice two kinds. If we ride the roller coaster, we identify with the highs and lows. Now I am happy. Now I am sad. Things went well for me. Nothing is going my way. One way to feel great is to be on that roller coaster and have things go your way, to get what you want, to experience the highs. There is nothing wrong with being happy when your team wins. Or when your spouse smiles and tells you you are great. Or when they like your post on Facebook. But over-investing in this type of feeling great does not empower us. Even when we are on the high, we are still victims of circumstances.

It is more useful to gain insight into the actions we take that result in good experiences and positive moments. This is empowering because we can repeat these actions. We step out of our habit patterns when we choose our actions. We are empowered to improve the quality of our lives when we choose actions that have our preferred outcomes. No one needs to tell us what outcomes are good for us. Whether we want to feel peaceful, purposeful, blissful, or some other feeling is our own business. We can observe our own lives, our own feelings, and come up with our own answers. 

Having a strengths-focused coach can help. A strengths-focused coach will always hand you your power. 

To Surrender or to Act? 

To put it simply: surrender after you act. 

When we look for the outcomes of our actions, we again hand our power over to the environment or circumstances outside ourselves. Instead, retain your power. Refocus on the new moment, the new opportunity to choose an action. This is not to suggest that you should avoid feeling the sense of peace, purpose, bliss, or whatever else may flow from skillful action. Just do not allow that to become victimhood to the highs and lows of roller coaster living.

Karma

If you do not recognize the principle of karma here, it is because the meaning of karma has been turned inside out. Popular notions of "good karma" and "bad karma" have everything to do with the payback one expects from the environment for "good" or "bad" deeds. That is just the opposite of what is useful. To take responsibility, to become the architect of our lives, as great Yoga teachers like Swami Rama suggest, we need to shift our focus from the external results to the internal causes. Choosing useful actions in each moment is masterful application of the principle of karma. 

Responsibility

Victor Frankl, the author of Man's Search for Meaning suggested that a Statue of Responsibility be built on the West Coast of the United States to balance the Statue of Liberty on the east coast. He did not suggest that the Statue of Liberty be removed, rather he recognized the connection between responsible, skillful action and thinking, and feeling unburdened from external conditions. Frankl achieved this insight when he was a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp. I try to remember this when I am tempted to hand over control of my feeling state to "circumstances beyond my control." 

It Is a New Skill 

Be patient with yourself as you develop a new sense of yourself. Ask for help, if you need it. It all starts; it all ends with ATTENTION. Notice when you feel good or positive. Reflect on what you are proud of or satisfied with in your life. Notice what has worked. Learn from it. Build on it. 

Okay. Go. 

I am a meditation teacher and a strengths-focused coach.  Get an introduction to meditation from my beautiful 2-Minutes to Meditate cards. They are perfect for people with busy lives, and will help you establish a daily practice that you can then build on. Each card has my contact information in case you have questions.

Letting Go. A Little Dab'll Do Ya

Start Letting Go of Small, Painful Things, and Pay Attention

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | December 10, 2014

I love talking to people about meditation and living a meditative lifestyle. Often, those conversations are about letting go. 

Sometimes I talk to people and they tell me that letting go is just too hard, and that they can't do it. I usually say something like, "That's fine then. Don't worry about it." 

I know they are worried because they want to get the benefits of meditation. They have invested a lot of time and attention, and they might be thinking, well, if I don't get it about this "letting go" thing, maybe I will miss out on Peace of Mind or something else abstract but cool sounding. 

I don't worry about them at that point, because this is just the beginning of the conversation, and I have done this before. We talk more, and somehow it comes out that they are thinking of letting go of something HUGE, such as a cherished identity like being a drummer, or an intimate relationship such as loving their children, or something that is part of the social contract like having money. They talk about letting go of something that is pleasing for them or something that helps them get along in life. "Don't let go. Don't worry about it." I say. I reassure them that they can still be an awesome meditator.

"Arise" by Jennifer Rose

At that point, I try to steer the conversation to something small that they could let go of. I might say something like, "Are there any small things you could let go of? Things that don't make you feel good, or even make you feel bad? For example, do you have a pair of socks with holes in them that you never wear, but keep in your drawer because your grandparents were raised during the depression and never got new socks? Do you have something that you would be better off without? Why not start with that? I have never met a person who couldn't think of something they had that they didn't really want or need. 

We talk about getting rid of those holey socks. And it turns out that those socks might be pretty difficult to let go of. The rational mind may be ready to let go of the socks, but something else is holding on. I don't tell them to get rid of the socks. I ask them whether they think they might be able to mindfully move in the direction of letting go of the socks. I tell them I want them to notice every single feeling and thought that arises around letting go of those socks. I tell them to study and learn as much as they can about letting go from those socks. 

They leave the conversation challenged, courageous, excited. "Maybe I can let go," they think. 

I love talking to people about meditation. Everything about it has a natural evolution. Letting go of some unused socks can become a profound understanding of attachment. It can lead to useful insights into the nature of attachment and identity. We let go of socks, and we get interested in the process. We move onto the baking dish that is perfectly good, but hasn't been used in fifteen years. We find ourselves giving more thought to acquiring things, and whether they will bring pleasure or pain. Paying attention to the nature of our own attachments can show us our unique path to ease and freedom. 

"Letting Go" is one of the images on the 2-Minute Practice Cards which introduce the chakras. They are available in the Better Existence Etsy store in physical and digital formats. 

Aches? Pains? Miseries? Meditation can help.

Physical, Emotional, and Mental Pains Can Be Lessened

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | November 20, 2014

Meditation is a peaceful, alert state of consciousness that results from practicing a series of increasingly subtle skills. Researchers today are studying the effects of this ancient practice and finding evidence that meditation lowers stress, improves physical and emotional health, increases focus, and even increases feelings of love. 

How long does your mind typically stay with one thought before it moves on to something new? Having a one-pointed mind is one of the subtle skills you develop as you learn to meditate. 

The Yoga Sutras compiled by Patanjali around 400 CE say that a one-pointed mind resolves life's physical, emotional and mental suffering. 

"A Safe Place" by Jennifer Rose

There are physical and breathing exercises that bring about inner states of relaxation and alertness. These states are conducive to cultivating focus. The mastery of these states has been systematized and articulated so that anyone can learn to make their mind one-pointed.

Even before you are properly meditating, realizations come from these practices that empower you. For example, you may notice that deep, diaphragmatic breathing can make you feel calmer. 

Meditation, as I teach and practice it, is secular and can be practiced by people from all walks of life. 

2-Minute Meditation Cards present the practices of ancient India as taught by Swami Rama, and introduce some of the current research to inspire you and give you confidence. 

Each of the 9 cards has a beautiful, soothing image on the front. On the back, the cards guide you in developing skills that will establish a meditation practice that you can rely on for the rest of your life. Step by step and one by one the cards guide you to work with your body, your breath, and then your mind to obtain a state of relaxation, ease, and mental focus. 

If you have been considering starting a meditation practice, but somehow haven't gotten started, these cards provide tangible support. If you have a meditation practice that has lapsed, these cards can be reminders and companions that bring you back to your practice. 

If you need more support, schedule a consultation. I have been teaching meditation and yoga for 15 years. 646-831-2675

If you wish to schedule 4 sessions during December--whether you are a beginner, or need support to reach your next goal, I will send you the cards as a thank you gift.

Learn to meditate. Be supported. 

Better Existence. BE

Do You Wake Up and Have Trouble Going Back to Sleep? This Pose Could Be The Fix

Reclining Buddha Is Trying to Help You Rest

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | September 29, 2014

Beautiful. Yes. Exotic. If you are a 24-year-old American girl, yes. The first time I traveled to Thailand and visited Wat Po, that is what I saw: a beautiful, exotic, enormous statue. That was half a lifetime ago. 

Today I see compassionate instruction. Perhaps we are not meant just to ogle this pose; we are meant to assume it, to see what the effects are. Perhaps its enormous size, more than 141 feet long, nearly half a football field, is an exclamation point on its meaning. This is a powerful pose. 

This pose healed my lifelong insomnia and terrible night anxiety. There must be someone else out there that it can help. I hope you will give it a try. 

How to Do the Pose

Notice these most important points about the position of the Reclining Buddha:

• He is lying on his right side.
• His platform is elevated under his right armpit.
• He is supporting his head.

Here is a photograph of the position I learned in yoga class with Nishit Patel, Vishnu Asana. This is the position I rest in when I wake up in the middle of the night and want to go back to sleep. 

• My left knee is bent, creating stability in the pose.
• My left elbow is bent, also for stability. 
• I am using a pillow to apply gentle pressure under my right armpit.

This pose changed my life. It gave me control over restlessness and nighttime anxiousness. If you are interested in understanding why it works, I can tell you, but try it first, and tell me what you experience. 

Use this pose to drift off to sleep, perhaps reading something calming to end the day, or use it to attain a calm state of mind if you wake up in the middle of the night. If you wake up anxious at 4am you are just like me. Lying in this pose might make as much of a difference in your life as it has in mine. 

If your right arm starts falling asleep, it is fine to move it.

If you do not find peace lying on your right side after twelve minutes or so, try lying on your left side in the same pose. I know 1 person who is more soothed on the left side than on the right side. 

I hope this helps you find relief. 

2-Minute Practice Cards: 2-Minute Bedtime Practices -- Wake Up Happy

Let's Talk About Discipline

Why Didn't Eknath Eat the Nut?

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | September 8, 2014

Does the word "discipline" leave you cold? Does it bring to mind a sadistic drill sergeant? Does it reek of the exact opposite of what you want to cultivate in your life?  

Have you ever asked yourself, "Why is discipline being touted as a virtue, when it is the epitome of icky, repellent, mindless, slavish following?" 

Has this question nagged you, as you have read the likes of St. Teresa of Avila almost weeping off the page with entreaty to apply oneself in a disciplined way to, in her case, prayer?

Maybe you tell yourself, "Well, it's fine for saints, but a mere mortal, I . . ." 

The Ancient Toltec wisdom in don Miguel Ruiz's The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom includes the equally impassioned entreaty, "Always do your best." 

What is the connection between discipline and personal freedom? 

The connection is simple but profound. 

There is a memorable scene in Eknath Easwaran's Passage Meditation: Bringing the Deep Wisdom of the Heart into Daily LIfe in which he describes being at someone's home and sitting near a bowl of cashews. He made up his mind to skip the cashews. However, he observed his hand, seeming almost independent, wandering toward the nut bowl again, and again, and again. Each time, he pulled his hand back. Because he had made up his mind, he brought that hand back empty again and again.

"Just eat the damn nut!" readers like me rail, "It's not like it's an entire pie." (There was this woman. She was in the hospital. In the night, she walked to the nurses' break room, went into the refrigerator, and ate the lemon meringue pie they had purchased for a party the next day. The whole pie. It wasn't like that.)  

Why didn't Eknath eat the nut?

Discpline can be doing something, such as prayer, a way of doing something, "your best," or not doing something, like eat the nut. 

Now ask yourself, if you make up your mind to ____________ (eat fewer calories, get up earlier, exercise regularly, save a few dollars each month, smile at the kids every day, stop using heroin) and at the critical moment you "do whatever you want to," you EAT THE NUT so to speak, are you free?

Have you ever felt like a slave to a habit?

Join the teleconference Conversations With Walking Yogi Nishit Patel before October 1st, when the topic will be Discipline. 

Nishit Patel, (who is great to friend on Facebook, because he is giving away the store every day with wise posts straight from the heart) tells a story about a Yogi Saint, Swami Ramtirth, who had a devotee who brought an apple each day at the same time. Until one day that devotee did not bring the apple! This Yogi Saint noticed that the absence of the expected apple created a mental disturbance. . . . He never ate another apple. 

This story demonstrates a premium placed on freedom from habits. It demonstrates the awesome power that habits have to disturb our minds, and the urgency to invest in conscious thought and action. 

Swami Sivananda of Gangotri to Bhole from 'At the Eleventh Hour' by Rajmani Tigunait (page 95): 

. . . discipline becomes torture if you do not understand its value and if you are not motivated to help yourself. It is self-motivation that prepares the ground for self-commitment. Only then do you enjoy the disciplines you undertake. Such discipline is called austerity. If you don't enjoy it, it is torture. 

 Join us in meaningful conversation on this topic and many more: Conversations With Walking Yogi Nishit Patel  the first Wednesday of every month. 

You Are Invited

Conversations With Walking Yogi Nishit Patel

by Jennifer Rose & Better Existence | August 29, 2014

Yes, you are invited to hang out in the sublime company of yogis. You may know some of us from the old days at the Himilayan Institute in New York City, where Nishit was the director. You may be a student of Nishit's from post institute days. You may not yet have met Nishit at all, but be curious about the breadth and depth of yoga and meditation as a practice, a philosophy, a lifestyle. ALL are welcome. You can subscribe right here, on this website. 

I know you are busy. I know it seems impossible to commit to one more thing. But just once a month, if you set aside that first Wednesday and join us, it might go something like this: You slog home from your job exhausted. You ask yourself, "Self, why did you commit to this?" You almost don't log in, but somehow you do. Then, when you make the connection, you think you can hear someone smiling. How is that possible? And that smile settles into your heart. You already feel a little lighter. Then the conversation begins. These topics are not usually discussed. What is the purpose of life? What is death? What is eternity? The smile in your heart is joined by an expansive feeling of possibility unfolding. You feel inspired and uplifted.  It feels like home. At the end of the hour you feel like only a few minutes have passed. You hang up feeling encouraged and ready to transform your tomorrows. This is why yoga-minded people look for opportunities to join together for discussion, for satsang. 

Over the years, many of Nishit's students have relocated across the country and around the world. When I met him in 1998 the technology did not exist to overcome the obstacle of distance, but today, it hardly matters at all. 

When I relocated to Portland in 2012, I knew I would miss Nishit's weekly classes at Three Jewels in New York City. (Mondays at 6:30 PM). Now I see the wonderful opportunity, and I want to include as many old and new friends as I can in these conversations. 

So, check under your sofa cushions, or cancel that Hulu subscription you never use... I jest. But Nishit is really making himself available for a price that represents a token of appreciation each month, and making it possible for us to shine a little in that bathing glow that lights us up within. This is an awesome opportunity.

Your participation is as you wish. You don't even have to join the live call. You can download the recordings later at no additional cost. One subscription covers all. You can submit questions, or just listen in. 

To join the conversation, or to gain access to the recordings, click here, or choose the Events tab. You will be able to read more about the event and, especially, read Nishit's invitation. Hope to see you Wednesday, September 3rd at 7pm New York Time at the first Conversation. 

What My New York Friends Asked Me About the 2-Minute Revolution

Every Person on Earth Can Do Something Positive for Two Minutes Each Day

By Jennifer Rose | July 24, 2014

I am back in rainy Portland after visiting New York City. Rain makes me smile. Go figure. 

In New York, everywhere I went, while I was teaching yoga classes, and while I was getting my hair cut, I talked about the 2-Minute Revolution. 

Here are questions people asked about the 2-Minute Revolution, and the answers I gave:

Question: What Should I Do For 2 Minutes?

Answer: Something Positive That Feels Right to You

Three categories of positive things fit into my line of work: 1. working toward a meaningful goal (coaching). 2. Contemplating useful thoughts (introspection) 3. Meditative Practices (Yoga and Meditation)

Here are some of the ideas for 2-Minute Practices I heard from my friends and students:

Listen to the sound of the Hudson River. 

Organize my space. 

Think happy thoughts. 

Here are some ideas from Better Existence:

Sit still in an aligned posture. Read about it here: Harvard Study quoted by Better Existence

Breathe diaphragmatically. Read about it here: Barbara Fredrickson, vagus nerve, love

Simply BE silent. My yoga and meditation teacher Nishit Patel suggests practicing silence for 10 minutes. Well, I do not suppose it could hurt to begin with 2. 

Question: How Much Does It Cost?

Answer: It Is Free!

And if you sign up for the email list (look to the right) you get free encouragement such as reminders to check out the new blog posts, research on daily practices, and product announcements and discounts. 

I have been sharing prototypes of the upcoming 2-Minute practice cards, and people have been heard to say, "I want these!" They will be available very soon. 

So SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST. I don't have any other way to keep in touch with you. 

If you are already practicing 2 minutes per day you are already part of the revolution. Sign up, and I will support you. Then, get your friends to sign up, too. You have already seen the value of a daily practice. Let everyone benefit from your experience, and ask them to sign up for the mailing list to get support for starting their practice. 

Question: How Long Should I Do It?

Answer: As Long As It Feels Right (PS: Every Day for the rest of your life)

This revolution is about turning inward and learning to trust your own inner wisdom. Learn a 2-Minute practice and master it, or try something different every day. And remember, every person on Earth can do something positive for 2 Minutes Every Day. 

Better Existence says, Daily-ness is important. Read about it here: Daily-ness supports change.

Please comment below with your ideas about what to do for 2 Minutes each day. What will you do for 2? 

You can get a free treat by signing up for the email list here: FIVE SECRETS THE BEST TEACHERS WISH YOU KNEW

The 2-Minute Revolution: Establish a Daily Practice

The 2-Minute Revolution:  Commit to a Short, Regular, Positive Practice

By Jennifer Rose | July 9, 2014

What Is The 2-Minute Revolution?

The 2-Minute Revolution is my mission to encourage you to commit to 2 minutes of positive practice each day. I am asking YOU to join a revolution. I am asking you to commit two minutes of your day to your own positive practice, whatever that practice may be.

Why Two Minutes?

Here is what Swami Rama says in Meditation and Its Practice about how long to practice each day:

You may sit for as long as is comfortable or for whatever time you have available on that occasion.

In the same book, Swami Rama stresses the importance of daily meditation at the same time each day. He says it "helps to eliminate the mental resistance caused by laziness and the tendency to procrastinate." (This topic is discussed in an earlier Better Existence blog post "Daily-ness Supports Change.")

Swami Rama is not being a pushover when he says "as long as is comfortable." He is not letting us off the hook when he says "whatever time you have available." He means it.

My meditation teacher Nishit Patel, a student of Swami Rama, has frequently repeated that I may meditate for two minutes when I am busy, but that I should practice on time every day. He too emphasizes the importance of regular, timely practice over feats of endurance.

Research Supports What Meditation Teachers Are Saying

Because I had already heard it from my meditation teacher, I was fascinated by Social Psychologist Amy Cuddy's research on "power posing." It correlates with my meditation instruction on at least two points: 1. assuming an "open, expansive posture," and 2. the length of time equal to two minutes.

Her research had the goal of determining whether posture impacted feeling states and behavior. After participants maintained an "open, expansive pose" for two minutes, the researchers measured decreases in cortisol, the stress hormone, and increases in testosterone, the power hormone, in both female and male study participants. They also measured a marked increase in willingness to take a risk.

The research shows that "a simple 2-min power-pose manipulation was enough to significantly alter the physiological, mental, and feeling states of our participants." Cuddy et al remark, "The implications of these results for everyday life are substantial." Meditation teachers couldn't agree more!

Swami Rama has stated that if one would only imitate the posture of a meditator, even without meditating, they would reap enormous benefits. He has called the need to meditate a "dire necessity." 

Last week's blog post explained that 2 minutes of diaphragmatic breathing could create feelings of love. Cuddy's evidence shows that 2 minutes in a meditation posture "is enough to significantly alter the physiological, mental, and feeling states of participants."  

Get These Benefits Into Your Life Today

You can see that I am leading up to something. Are you ready to commit to 2 minutes a day to reap these rewards for yourself? Please add your comments below. 

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